Sex Objects

Are we as women only looked at as being sex objects? Every new person I'm meeting is only after one thing and aren't afraid to request this and send me sext messages like I've asked to see it. What happened to wanting to know somebody first? I mean what if I turn pyscho after you give me a sample, hell what if you turn into a stalker. I just don't understand with so many STD's going on and AIDS at an all time high why is getting sex the first thing you think of when you see me. I'm flattered that you find me attractive and that you want to pounce me but damn get to see where my head is at first. find out if i'm even worth trouble, let me see if you are worth the trouble. that's whats wrong with us. we go into things prematurely and then regret the mistakes after but then sometimes it's too late because we've made a temporary fix and permanent situation. Take time before you jump my bones please. I am somebody and want to feel important to you before i give you my goodies. A woman know the minute she meets you if she wants to have sex with you but the next minute the man opens his mouth and destroys those chances...LLS! Please just shut up and let us run this race for you before you just walk away empty handed...

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  1. LuvJuly 18, 2010 at 5:38 PM

    lol.. i must not being doing it right cuz i ain't getting pics of nothing.. lol

    but naw, we live in a world where sex is given away like candy..no one really understands the value or the repercussions of having free sex..

    and you right, cuz i know the minute i meet a person if i want him to hump me...

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  2. Blaq JuelzAugust 20, 2010 at 9:02 PM

    i truly appreciate you dropping a note in my spot.

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